The main thing about this series that makes it strike such a blow for equality is that in Rowling's fantasy world, there IS no gender imbalance. Nobody is ever penalised, pigeon-holed or stigmatised because of their sex, male OR female. Gender is never used as an excuse for someone not being able to do something, or contrarily, for someone being more able to do something. As improbable as that may sound to us in our society that enforces gender divides, within the context of her books, it works. So, take out the magic and the robes and spells … Why shouldn't it work for us too?
Being a male in these books doesn't afford you any more privileges or special powers than being a woman does. There are two important factors in her books that illustrate this, involving two huge parts of her society that are paralleled in our own. Violence, and sport. These are two large elements in our society that are used to illustrate and perpetuate gender 'norms' and stereotypes, and yet conversely don't perform the same function in these books. The method of fighting in Rowling's world using magic involves using wands, and isn't dependent on physical strength, but rather skill and prowess. Men fight women, women fight women, men fight men, and that's just the way it is. There is never a suggestion that a woman would be less capable at this than a man, and as such, there is no visible gender divide. When you compare this with our society, and you see how prevalent violence, or even just the threat of violence, is, it is easy to see how gender stereotypes and therefore inequality have persevered. This is also the case with Quidditch, the sport of the Wizarding world. Mixed gender sports are extremely rare, even in sports where the one advantage that men often have over women due to their body types, upper body strength, is not a factor. It's become commonplace to divide sports by gender under the guise of being 'fairer', yet really all it does is create a bigger inequality gap. In the fictional sport of Quidditch, being male doesn't afford you any advantage over women. All the teams Rowling creates are mixed gender, and this is once again presented as common-place. The issue of a female playing against a male is never even problematised, because really, why should it be? If two players have equal skill levels and competence, why should gender even be an issue?
A friend of mine correctly pointed out that her society is still patriarchal to the extent that the positions of power are, for the most part, occupied by men. I think it's important to recognise this, as it shows that this series definitely isn't 100% focused on complete gender equality, as mentioned in my previous post. As much as I think it would have been nice to see a woman at the top for once, I think that it matters less in these books than in others because these positions of power are not glamourised, or even explored very deeply. In fact, often the idea of power itself is associated with greed, and therefore the positions of power are not seen as things to aspire to, but rather things to avoid. So I think it's less of an issue than it might have been if they WERE glamourised that they aren't occupied by women. The point of these books is not somebody (our protagonist) trying to ascend to a position of power; it's somebody trying to live a normal life. Although the political backdrop to this is important, I don't feel it's as prevalent as the human issues that are being discussed, especially when we consider that it's a children's book. I think these are the things that will stay with the readers more.
Rowling also does a great job of characterising a male lead character who has to deal with enormous upset and grief in his life. By getting inside his head and verbalising all the thoughts he has about his feelings towards death, being an orphan, being singled out to defeat the Dark Lord (we've all been there, mate), Rowling presents us with a male character that actually identifies with his emotions, even if he is only doing so because she is pulling the strings. But still, by doing this, she makes it 'okay' to verbalise feelings and discuss issues, something that would impact positively on her younger male readership, making them realise that discussing problems or expressing emotions is not a sign of weakness. It defies the male stereotypes that pervade our society of not discussing or dealing with emotions. This is NOT an inherent trait in men, biological and unavoidable; it's the result of self-perpetuated social conditioning and therefore can be prevented fairly easily if children are given the correct information early enough in life to stop themselves forming a pattern in their behaviour.
I work with children aged 5 through to 11, and I have to say that in the younger children, there is no gender divide over which children get more upset and express this through crying or telling the teacher; I would say it's around 50/50. But as the children get older, the gender divide in terms of expressing emotions becomes much more pronounced, so that by the time they are 9 or upwards, it is much MUCH more usual to see a girl crying because something has upset her, and to see a boy, having perhaps suffered a similarly distressing situation, internalise the feeling and become sullen or moody. As you can see, the result isn't the child is NOT upset, it's that he deals with it differently. On the occasions where boys have cried in my older classes, the atmosphere changes to one of palpable astonishment quickly, whereas when girls cry, although attention is drawn to them, it's never for very long, and it's never usually particularly negative. What's perhaps worse, is that sometimes I've seen the same child, after choosing to internalise his feelings rather than discuss them, react in an unnecessarily violent manner in order to express himself somehow, either immediately or shortly afterwards. And furthermore, what's even worse is that I see myself and other teachers subconsciously buying into this; being more surprised when a boy cries, or reacting differently to when a girl does. This is not the way to treat the problem. The impact of this social conditioning on these kids' lives is much more serious than it's recognised to be. We are harming these children by allowing them to believe that because of their gender, they must act in a certain way. They will grow up believing that they have to subscribe to the normative role of the heterosexual man, and if they don't – if they're not physically strong, or show their emotions by crying – then they have failed. Rowling, by contrast, normalises the expressions of feelings without attaching them to a particular gender. It's made even more normal and perhaps easy to relate to when we consider the fact that it isn't presented as the easiest thing in the world to do; Harry finds it a struggle, which leads me to my next point.
One of the strongest undercurrents of the book is the idea, which is consequently problematised, of facing challenges alone. A huge part of Harry's 'personal journey' (if it can be referred to as such in a kid's book) is that he has to face a lot of his hardships alone, as one by one people around him die. However, true to Rowling's theme of friendship, he ends up realising that there are some things he doesn't have to do alone, and that being strong isn't always about going solo. Rowling makes his friends indispensable to him, and fully active in his eventual victory. Cheesy, perhaps, and not that original in the grand context of themes of books, but when you consider that this is a children's book it becomes very important. A character that kids have spent 7 long books relating to embraces the fact that strength can come in more than just the physical form, and that asking for help and even needing people is not a weakness. This is not only something beneficial for kids to learn, it's absolutely paramount. It also, incidentally, goes against many of the existing (untrue) gender stereotypes about men that children are completely surrounded by – that they are alpha males, strong, who don't need help from anyone. Rowling creates a personable, likeable, fallible and physically pretty weak hero (she makes constant allusions to how weedy he is) that ends up victorious in his battle because he embodies the exact opposites of these stereotypes. Rowling inverts these social 'norms' in order to make one of the most popular literary characters of recent years, that could benefit her male readership as much as her female one.
One thing about the world that Rowling has created that might explain the lack of gender inequality is that there are too many divides – Muggle vs Wizard, Half-blood vs Pure-Blood, etc - for gender to factor in as well. But... isn't that the case in real life too? Aren't there far too many obstacles in EVERYONE's way every day without gender, and the social baggage that comes with it, being yet another hurdle you have to throw yourself across?
The only way to dispel illusions and stereotypes about men AND women that are harmful to both sexes is by teaching children when they are young enough that their gender does not have to define who they are, what they can do, and who they can be. And Rowling's series is a definite stepping stone towards encouraging children that gender, theirs or anyone else's, does not have to be a shackle.